All moms know that being a stay at home mom is harder work than most outside jobs. But you still have an advantage of part time jobs. Use your flexible schedule to get a little rest might be a better aphrodisiac and a better gift than any order of oysters or the nicest gift you can think of Isnt that what he or she wants more than anything else to feel really important and special to you If youre rested and caught up you can listen better and become more involved with what your spouse is saying to you. There nothing better for your marriage than some really good communication and private time. But its hard to give that to someone when youre totally exhausted and overextended. Maybe some rest for you is the nicest gift you can give him.